Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Relationship Advice

God's timing is ALWAYS good. I got this from http://jaesonma.com. The guy totally seems to describe me and how I view myself in front of "her". Wow...

One way to love others in relationship problems is to share with them what you have learned in your past experiences. I spent the evening with my girlfriend Rene sharing with a friend of ours who was going through relationship struggles some key insights and lessons learnt … he was feeling really down about himself, that he wasn’t good enough for his girlfriend and was about to totally give up with a discouraged spirit. Rene and I shared with him the following…

1. Give it room to breathe
2. Show her that you still care, but don’t overload her
3. Make it your aim to seek God first
4. Commit to Change what is necessary
5. Communicate with her once your mind is clear
5. Make up with a hug & kiss :)


Of course this advice was catered for a specific relationship, it doesn’t work for each relationship since every relationship is different. But the above steps have also worked for us in the past and guess what?… they made up and things are all good for them again!